To flirt or not to flirt...

What is flirting?

Flirting is defined as the process of making playful romantic or sexual overtures. It's how we initially express a sexual or romantic interest in another person. Generally, if you are attracted to a person, you'll flirt as a way of discovering if they are attracted to you as well. These flirtatious actions include your conversation, body language, and/or physical contact.

Flirting is not my game before, when I was happily married, I never flirt with anyone, cos I know it will become very messy towards the end.

But now, I flirt a lot, especially when I noticed men flirting with me. I know men love to flirt, it's a game they always play.

I have a girlfriend who's always a flirt since we were single, she loves it, she said it was fun, now she's married with children, and she still flirts a lot, and she said, it's only flirting since she's not breaking any rule, which is beyond flirting, ofcourse the intercourse.

But when do we stop?Well--- I started flirting with this man many moons ago, actually he flirt with me first, but the thing is, he has a girlfriend, and the worst part? I know the girl. We started flirting , the body language, then the txt, it went over the top, to the point like we exchange text messages like 20sms a day.

Until we decided to do the phonecalls. We both enjoyed each other company, oh well, only because what we're doing is forbidden.

We end up getting too attached with each other, until one day, we had sex. It was the best sex of my life so far, and he said the same thing.

We became passionate, and we were head over heels crazy for each other, until we even exchange I love you's...until our illicit affair came to open. The girlfriend found out. She went ballistic.

My reputation was ruined, now I am no longer the goody goody butter wouldn't melt blah blah.

I avoided the man, though he was dumping his girlfriend just to be with me. I said, we only knew each other for a short while, it can't be LOVE. it's just lust. but it was the sex of the century.

I can say i now moved on with my life, I joined this dating site, and I get like 40 messages a day, I put my photo on my profile, but after 4 days I decided to delete it, it's not for me, too many players, I can't handle, but I met quite a few, and gave them my email address, we still exchange email and we do the occasional flirting, men love it, and likewise..

I play their game as long as I know my limits... (Do not involve the heart!!!)