Although I have been separated for a couple of years now, I have not been into dating really. My priorities at the moment are my children. For the past few years, while I was mending a broken heart, I focus on my career and children.
I know, that keeping a lasting marriage is a hard work, and I am not blaming my husband for what happened. What happenned happens, and there's no point blaming anybody for it.
The most important thing are your children, they must not get affected. It's not their fault that you have a failed marriage.
I see a lot of messy divorce, bickering with each other, and I vowed not to be like that...I am still friends with my ex and our children knows we love them just as much...
One thing I promised myself though, is to never-ever invite a man in my house, until perhaps I am serious with the guy.
Dating is getting a bit of a hard work as a single mum. It is quite hard to balance your duty as a mother/father, work and your social life. Baby sitters cost a fortune.That is why most of the time, I have to cancel dates cos I can't find baby sitters.
SOmetimes my weekend is occuppied with house work. Catching up with the bills etc. So I really can't find my time to date. Let alone polish my nails.
I hope 2010 will be a lot easier for me, cos I bloody deserved one...
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